Top 10 Travel Tips

This little guy lived on our Hotel in Tulum!

Hey everyone!

I have not blogged about this much, but most of my professional career has been in the field of Hospitality, specifically in the Luxury Hotel and Restaurant sector. I was a concierge for 3 years and a Restaurant Manager for two. I have experience in other departments, but this is where I spent the most time.

As a former industry person, people ask me a lot of different questions when they travel. My BS is in Hospitality, and I absolutely love this industry, I just don’t want to work in operations anymore. This post is to give you MY tips for booking and traveling, basically how to get the best deals and hook-ups, but also what to avoid EVEN in the Highest level hotels.

#1 Book direct! 

I cannot stress this enough! I always, ALWAYS book direct for everything (rental cars I will do AAA, but only with Hertz because they have a good system.) BOOKING THROUGH THIRD PARTY SITES LIMITS THE CONTROL THE HOTEL HAS OVER YOUR BOOKING. If things are wrong with your reservation, it is the third party’s fault, not the Company.

When I was at the hotel, I HATED third party bookings. The hotel can’t adjust anything, the sites often have issues with the bookings (or don’t complete them) and the hotel can’t do anything about that. How it works is the hotel has extra rooms and they sell them to the third party sites to sell such as Expedia, Travelocity, ect., at a lower price. Then these sites sell them to you. Say the hotel sells the rooms for $100 – you will then pay about $150-200 for that room and the third party site takes the rest of that. Most of the time, companies will match the price you see on a 3rd party site if you contact them directly because they want to have more control over the reservation. Which leads me to my second tip:

#2 Shop around! 

Check everywhere for the best deals! As I mentioned above, there is always the possibility for price match. Most companies do it, they would be dumb not to. But also, Sites like Kayak are GREAT for comparing different hotels, airlines, and car rental companies. I ALWAYS find my flights on Kayak then book direct through the site, quick and easy to compare and filter. Same goes with hotels. It is easier to filter it down to what your tough guidelines are (location, price, amenities) then you can do your own independent research and pick the hotel best for you! NOTE: not all airlines are listed on Kayak, example Southwest, so use other sites like cheapo air and Expedia too.

#3 Book Hotels refundable then keep checking back for better deals to find the best price!

Okay, this usually only works when you book far enough out in advance. Hotels have sales too, so its great if you sign up for a news letter and get all the emails. I have booked hotels 6 months out for like $1200 and then over a long weekend they had a sale and I rebooked and cancelled my original reservation and saved over $200. This only works if you are savvy with Hotel Websites. If you have ever booked directly, you have noticed the actual process of online booking is identical for most hotels, that because there are only a few major hotel booking site companies that design the process for hotels, and all tend to be the same.

If you are nervous about doing this, don’t. If you guarantee you are going, a lot of times you can put a deposit down and get a certain percentage off. Do what you are comfortable with.

#4 Be nice to the front desk!

Who likes upgrades and free shit? I do! The front desk has way more control over the fun stuff than you think they do. Most good companies empower their employees to make sure the guest’s experience is spectacular! If they are telling you they can’t do something, chances are they can’t. But if you come in there like a normal person, have a conversation with them, be nice, and just brighten up their day that much more, chances are you may have a surprise in your room when you get back from dinner, or a complimentary upgrade. (Most hotels over sell their lower level rooms so they can complimentary upgrade people to the next level up.) I don’t think I have every stayed in a hotel, even those I did not have connections at, where I didn’t get an amenity or a comp upgrade. Also, If you pay for an upgrade, they will treat you like a god and give you whatever the fuck you want. But also, they are human too, and there are a lot of assholes who are entitled and think they deserve the world. “The customer is always right” is the most draining phrase in Hospitality. If you are the only positive interaction they have had all day, they will be so grateful and show you that their entire stay.

#5 Make sure to mark if you reservation is a special occasion, but don’t expect anything. 

Here for a Birthday? GREAT! Job interview? AWESOME! they will make it seem like they have never had anyone stay here for an event like that in their life. However, if you and 150 other people are there for the Ariana Grande concert and 40 different 12 year old girls have a birthday, they would need a million helium tanks for balloons. That is not always practical. The reason I like boutique hotels is because they are small, and they can do special things for special occasions. Even if it is just sending up some water bottles and chocolate. You always need water bottles when traveling and who doesn’t like chocolate. If they can do something special for you, they will. If you are more of a private person, it will all be in the privacy of your room. They won’t bring out a mariachi band in the lobby and make you the center of attention.

#6 Always inspect your room as soon as you step in! 

If something is wrong with your room, you need to bring it up to them as soon as you check in, not after you mess up the bed and have a full course meal on the desk. It is so much harder to move you once you have already unraveled the room. I have 3 steps as soon as I get into the room. 1. Inspect the bathroom. I check the tub and floor for hairs, and I check under the toilet seat. I will not explain that one. Just do it. You will see what I mean. 2. Check all of the lights and outlets for charging your phone. Self explanatory. 3. Make sure nothing is missing from your minibar. Don’t want to get charged because the attendant accidentally missed or has not gotten to your room yet.

Just make sure it is up to your standards before you settle in. If it is not, let the desk know ASAP and they will do whatever they can. If they can’t, they prob can’t. And they should try to make up for it depending on the severity.

#7 Tip Housekeeping Daily

Standard service tip is $1-$5 depending on the type of service. These people are cleaning up after you and don’t make that much an hour. IF you tip, they generally take care of your room better, and also you may get a nice bottle of sparkling wine and some treats out of it. Also, if they notice something wrong with your room, they will let maintenance know. The reason to leave one every day is because depending on the length of your stay, you most likely don’t have the same housekeeper daily. They have days off too. I myself am guilty of forgetting daily. If I really feel bad, I will leave the house keeper tip with the front desk. MAKE SURE YOU LEAVE YOUR BIGGEST TIP ON THE LAST DAY. The amount depends on how messy your room is. I try to leave mine pre-done for them, I did an internship in housekeeping during undergrad and it is not easy! If your  room is a mess, throw them a bone. Don’t be an asshole. They even like gifts! If you got donuts, leave them one! It is still just as nice.


I’m not going into detail over this, just trust me.

#9 Tip room service if you order something and they may hook you up!

Even if it is just $2 extra, most gratuity is already included. They have access to ALLL the alcohol and extra little chocolates. They will send shit up to you. They are the ones who deliver it in the first place.

#10 Don’t be uptight! 

Don’t be uptight, even if it is an important trip for you. You have no idea how many times people have come in already assuming we would fuck their birthday weekend up. Just relax and trust us. We will do our very best. ALSO if it’s an important weekend, you get the quality that you pay for. You stay at a lower level hotel, you get a lower level of service.

I hope all my tips helped! If you have any questions, feel free to contact me!



DISCLOSURE: This post is purely opinion. Nothing is sponsored.

Tulum, Mexico!

Hi Everyone!

It has been a while since I have posted and A LOT has been going on. Grad school this semester has been a little insane work wise so that is why I have been MIA. But also I was in Tulum, Mexico for a week totally disconnecting which was much needed.

Tulum was AMAZING! I want everyone who is looking to go to Mexico to consider going here. You will not be disappointed, I guarantee.

Tulum is a small little town located about 1.5 hours south of Cancun along the cost of the Yucatán Peninsula. The reason I was attracted to this area is because it is known for its well preserved Mayan ruins AND Cenotes (under ground caves).

You fly into Cancun International Airport and then most hotels have shuttles or partnered car services to take you. One thing I will say for those who are nervous traveling to Mexico given all the news about what is going on: Tulum is in the middle of no where. It is a very rural town and there are not large resorts like you see in Cancun. It is mostly small boutique hotels and everything is pretty open. There is regular police patrol that is not different than what you see in Boston, but it is definitely an area where you can be very vulnerable if you are expecting maximum security from the military or a resort. Basically, if you don’t have common street sense, don’t go here. Find a resort.

What we did notice while we were there, there were very little Americans and a lot of Europeans. Also, its is the perfect place for Bachelorette parties or even a single traveler. Tulum is a place where you can do absolutely nothing but eat and relax or you can see many historical sites. We chose to do nothing.

Our Hotel

We stayed at El Pez which is part of Colibri Boutique Hotels which is ALSO affiliated with Small Luxury Hotels of the World which is a company we are looking to use for every single vacation we have been looking into. I have a BS in Management with a Concentration in Hospitality and all of my professional Hospitality career was done in luxury boutique hotels, so you can say they are my passion. I did MUCH research before we went and I am a hotel snob, so I have extremely high standards and El Pez met them all! I will be doing a Travel Tips Post later this week hopefully where I give you my professional input on how I book vacations.

We did not do much while we were there because we needed a few days to just Relax and Rejuvenate, but we will be going back hopefully withing the year because I really wanted to go to the Cenotes and all the Mayan Ruins. If we do we will stay here 1000%.

The best thing about luxury boutique hotels is the service. In a good hotel most staff you are interacting with will get to know your name and use it regularly, this also allows them to put the personalized touch on your experience, more than what you would get at a Large resort. El Pez has under 20 rooms so EVERYONE knew our names. Even the grounds keepers who took care of the common areas.

We stayed in a Sea Front King which is technically the lowest level room and our view was amazing! Every room has a veranda and every morning they deliver coffee. We did not set a single alarm while we were there. Our view faced the sunrise, so we just left our curtains open. I am the only one who drinks coffee. Every morning between 7 and 8, I would wake up to the sun rise, grab my coffee outside my door, and sit on the veranda while I enjoyed my coffee. No technology. (they also deliver meditation tea every night)

Then J would wake up and we would head down stairs for breakfast, which was included, sit watching the water, eat fresh fruit and just be present. IT WAS PERFECT! This was our first Vacation as a couple and prob the best possible one we could have done.

After breakfast we would go back to the room and from about 9 to 12:30 is the sun would hit our Veranda perfectly I would just sun bath up there.

The rest of the day we would just walk around the town exploring and eating Tacos. J was obsessed with Mateo’s Mexican Grill, so we ate there every day. They have outstanding service, a beautiful Sunset bar AND a different featured Margarita every day. The one above is a Cucumber Margarita which I had multiple times a day (they made it for me even when it wasn’t the special because we kept coming back).

Shopping was amazing as well. Tones of little boutiques, local companies. My FAVORITE purchase was this wall hanging! I was looking for this exact one. It took about 3 hours to find the best one because I am so indecisive, everyone give J a round of applause for putting up with me.

OVERALL: I give Tulum 15 out of 10 starts. I find I usually have high expectations in my head of what my vacations are going to be like, and they never quite measure up. Tulum blew us away. Best thing, you can go to relax or to have an adventure and learn some amazing Mexican History.

As always, Thanks for reading! Feel free to comment below or email with questions! I have a lot of Highlights on IG as well.



DISCLOSURE: This is not sponsored, pure opinion.